raising a child is perhaps the most complex journey of all, but success is likely governed by few principles. And this is one of them.
this quote has stuck for a while.
It doesn't matter where I heard it (YouTube).
It's powerful in its simplicity. Raising a child is perhaps the most complex journey of all, but success is likely governed by few principles.
And this is one of them:
“Your job as a parent is to teach your kids to be the masters of their environment, not to fear it.”
that fact does not make moral reasoning impossible. It changes its character. It means we should be cautious about moral frameworks that depend on precise enumeration of outcomes, and more respectful of constraints that have survived because they may protect society from certain failure modes.
if you don’t inherit friction from the world and are traveling through Extremistan, it may be wise to design your own friction: embrace the beauty of logistics, accept multiple stops along the way, say “no” when in doubt, study the classics.
leverage exists, but is always paired with constraints. Physical limits (think size or speed), cultural friction, or some other factor that prevents scaling out of control and keep the thing going (i.e., alive, not extinct, not permanently ruined)... but in our wonderful world of finance...
the asymmetry of ruin: scalability and lack of friction can turn ordinary mistakes into terminal events
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